Lambodar Sahu

In the 1990s we saw a lot of births being given by mothers that were not married. In fact, 1 of 3 children appeared with these conditions around them. All the decisions that unmarried parents will take can cause emotional shifts in the life of the child. This can lead to problems as he/she is growing up. The truth that some people do not understand is that in order to grow up properly one child needs both parents around. Even if one couple ends up separating, the child has to be properly taken care of. It is highly advised that you pay close attention to the behavior of the child in order to spot all problems that he might have.

Most situations show unmarried parents thinking that the couple will still be strong and they are to be married a couple of years after the child is born. The problem that can be seen is that there are many possible variables. Child custody battles can easily appear from this. Statistics did show us that 85% of cases sees mothers receive custody rights. Those percentages can end up higher when she proves she was a main caregiver in the past. Unfortunately this will lead towards father being taken out of the life of his child in most cases. With unmarried parents the possibility of big arguments is much higher than couples that have divorced. Sometimes the child ends up being used as a weapon to hurt the other person. You have to always remember that one child that grows without a parent can end up with major emotional scars.

Child custody cases are difficult. We can tell you good news too as we see most of the courts mainly thinking about the child’s interests when making decisions. We kindly recommend you talk with different specialists so that a lot more info is gained for unmarried parents. When a separation takes places this can be even more true. There is no reason why the child should suffer for mistakes that you did.